m and e

Remember

2009-07-15T13:59:00.002-07:00

Remember this little visit I made to AZ?
Our valentines celebration!
Remember how we both look silly and for some reason scooted to the edge of our seats looking quite uncomfortable???!
But do remember that we were quite comfortable, eating our toast and sipping our hot chocolate, watching the little family across from us, enjoying the ever so cozy atmosphere.
Remember the mall shopping and the many many bags of purchases!
Remember the list or agenda I should say you created with mucho fun built into every day.
Remember the salmon mango tacos...oh yum!
Remember the valentines homemade dinner and the valentines movie cuddled in blankets on the couch.
Remember frankenstein and pumpkin' waiting for me on the night stand.
Remember us both wondering when I would get engaged....!
Remember how this person's finger is in the top of this picture!
Remember me borrowing your clothes like the old days.
Remember Remember Remember!
Oh Lizzy, hope this makes your day...xo!

a wedding letter

2008-06-18T09:21:00.003-07:00

M,

Since you're getting married in a week(ish), I thought I'd say a few words. This ol' blog of ours has been neglected lately - what, with wedding planning, new jobs, your engagement, other blogs, moving (both of us), painting and all the driving we both do - it's a wonder we have time to be friends anymore. However, even though we seldom get the chance to talk like we used to, I just wanted you to know that my love for you remains the same.

I am so grateful for your friendship and the influence you've had in my life. I know that as the years go by and as we both move, settle down with children and grow old, we won't be able to see each other as often as we have in the past. It's been a great ride with you through the last few years as your friend. I've written you poems (like this one):

O Emmmm, my little M.

How you sleep in your bed

So softly

So quietly

So . . . boringly.

Goodnight my little M.

Sleep tight, my little M.

Dream of soy milk and Kashi.

Dream of stone ground whole wheat bread.

Dream of "the mini" . . .

But please, don't dream of tomatoes

And don't forget to wake up at 7:00.

We've had long talks at the park and pictures with Max the Ceramic Dog, dates to Joe's and the DI, trips to Idaho Falls, late night giggling fits along with insightful conversations. We've shared clothing, recipes, music, books and our talents with each other and I've learned so much from you. You've always been my strongest support and I don't know what my experience in this life would have been like if you hadn't been there right along beside me. You saw me through some of my toughest moments with your wisdom and quiet encouragement, never judging me or my stupid mistakes.

Now, as you marry a man that I've never met, I can't help but feel a little "jipped". I missed out on your entire wedding planning process, your bridal shower, your endowment day and so many other moments leading up to June 28th. However, as I sit here feeling sad that I didn't get to be a part of all these events, I realize that you didn't get to be there for mine. Yet there you came, on November 3, with your helping hands, cheerful smile and supportive character. I hope I can do the same for you.

I know you'll receive all kinds of advice for your wedding - I know I did. As I listened to the words that people had to say, I thought of their own marriages and how that advice came from their experience. While their knowledge and wisdom was appreciated, I realize now that a lot of that advice was specific to their situation, their personalities and their traits. I've thought a lot about your personality and your traits. Some of the best advice that I've received were things that I could apply into my marriage because I knew of my own weaknesses. I know that I'm sensitive, sometimes impatient and often moody. I think the best advice I can give you is to be mindful of the influence your attitude/mood has on your relationship with Steve and to always put his feelings before your own. I know that you'll be his constant support like you have been to me. That's just who you are. I hope you'll cultivate that talent as a wife, because Steve will appreciate that trait in you so much as you support him in his career and in his callings in life. I also know that you'll be his greatest cheerleader, always encouraging him and bringing out the best in him - that's also just who you are. You'll be patient and fun-loving, organized and efficient, kind and compassionate to him. Those are all traits that you have and traits that I admire in you. I love you Mitch, and I hope that our friendship never fizzles out as so many of my friendships have in the past. Your friendship has been the strongest and best in my life and I hope you'll never forget that.

Your Friend Forever and Ever,
E

2008-04-07T21:31:00.001-07:00

Dear M,

I'm sad we never talk anymore.

Love, E

2008-02-20T13:56:00.003-07:00

Dear E,

Thanks for...
taking time off work
making me breakfast, lunch, & dinner
listening to all my plans & thrills & updates
shopping through my indecisiveness
doing my hair
being funny
laughing with me
the flowers
the cozy bed
and just plain 'ol being you!

Love, M

whip it. whip it good.

2008-01-24T11:17:00.000-07:00

So, did your whipped cream turn out to look like this goodness? I've been reading people's blogs about how it's so flipping cold in Utah and then I go outside and don't even have to put my jacket on. It's kind of nice but then it isn't. It's still cool and perfect weather, I just wish it were like this all year round.

Another day closer to you coming to visit. Can't wait! Call me when you have time.

2008-01-11T09:08:00.000-07:00

It's finally coming true! You and me together again for 3 whole days. I cannot wait.

2007-10-18T12:59:00.000-07:00

P.S. I spent way too long making this.

2007-09-24T15:09:00.001-07:00

Dearest E,

Remember Frankenstein and Pumpkin'?...

It's about time to bring them out again!

Love, M

E's Suggestions

2007-09-04T09:09:00.000-07:00

Well, I think you would look AWESOME in this!

and speaking of which, I have an idea that we need to converse about.

2007-09-02T13:53:00.000-07:00

M's Suggestions

Dearest E,

I think you would look pretty in this, this, this, & this...

I think you would love the sounds of this...

and this...

Love, M

2007-08-28T08:14:00.000-07:00

Hmmm Hmmm Hmmm,

Tomorrow's a Special Day!

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

and i'm back for an added on comment since your post didn't show up until I posted the above?
G.C.....I am thinking Yes Yes and Yes! EEEK, that would be perfect! When we see each other for the first time in SLC can we just embrace for a really long time? :o)

2007-08-27T12:18:00.000-07:00

dear m,

general conference is in one(ish) month. we are thinking of going with another couple in our ward. we are thinking of staying in provo (that's where you live). I am thinking of lunch with you at zuppa's. I am thinking of fall weather and sweaters. I am thinking of priesthood session shopping at gateway. what do you say, eh?

love, e

2007-08-16T07:09:00.000-07:00

dear m,

didja know that it has been almost a week since we last talked? that's the same amount of time that me and David haven't done "you-know-what". I've been sick all week with a nasty common cold.

so, what have you been up to this week? have you finished decorating your brother's house? that's very cool that you get to do that. now imagine that you can do that for a living - in chandler, az! doesn't that sound like a dream? I wonder where you could find a job like that? hmmmm.

other than that, I miss you and would appreciate a little telephone call when you get a chance.

love ya lots,
e

2007-08-08T13:48:00.000-07:00

dear m,

ok, here's the plan. you fly in on thursday, november 29th in the afternoon. we have a delicious dinner and then hang out at my house. I will take friday off of work and we can hang out doing fun things like last chance, lunch at pita jungle and other significantly wonderful things (like perhaps antique plaza in downtown mesa?). on saturday, you can attend some wedding festivities (i.e. the reception at my parent's house) and meet stephen's single friends who are all very cool and that you might possibly end up marrying. sunday we can take a walk around the temple christmas lights and just enjoy the wonderful arizona winter weather while drinking hot chocolate before we have to take you to the airport (boo!) doesn't that sound awesome? just think about it and get back to me.

love, e

2007-08-08T07:41:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

Love, M

2007-08-06T09:10:00.001-07:00

It's getting difficult to stay caught up isn't it. It's hard when things are going on yet they aren't that relevant to the other person, although they are the things that make up your every day and ultimately you. I'm finding that difficult. I'm having a sombering day...just one of those...I just get frustrated with life sometimes (you know)...and frustrated with patience...frustrated with the unknown...and frustrated with having to always be the strong one and help everyone else (referring to my calling)...but God knows and God blesses and God sees...

So it appears that we have a lot to catch up on:

The N-gagement
The Ranch
The No-go on Brick Oven
The Other Job
The fact that I'm ready for a new blog layout...because i've been way to uninspired to blog
The return of the parents
and
All the other talk in-between!

2007-08-06T06:48:00.000-07:00

I miss you.

2007-07-31T09:05:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

Feel free to expect a big, bad birthday gift in the next few days.

Sorry it isn't wrapped pretty or anything like that.

I was trying to be quick about it since it's already so late!

P.S. The gift isn't so "big {comma} bad" as I described". It's more like "small {comma} heartfelt". Love ya lots and I hope you like it!

Love, E

2007-07-17T20:53:00.000-07:00

Today I was inspired by these quotes:

Vision without Effort is daydreaming, Effort without Vision is drudgery.

Our spirit can feed our intellect but if we let our intellect overcome our spirit, we will fall.

2007-07-12T08:21:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

I absolutely loved lists 1 and 2....and marveled at the money needing ideas you thought of for the first list, because someday we will do them....really we will. However, now is definitely not the time for such gifts/dreams and so I will let you know that I was just as much in love with your creative ideas for list number 2....except maybe minus this one

(I actually had to google it to know what it was!) Does this have something to do with that random letter I mailed you? Randomness can be a boomerang.

So, without me giving you any inkling of an idea, I say choose whatever your little heart thinks I would love, and that will be just perfect. I mean 'cmon I melt at those handmade cards you make me so really just send me one of those if you can't decide on anything else ;o)

Can you believe it will be the big 23? Sheesh!

As far as your birthday goes, you are welcome to make me a list, but I am determined to just catch you by surprise! (insert your evil little wahwahwah laugh here)

Okay my deary, best wishes deciding and I will just wait in anxiousness for a mail piece with your handwriting on it!

Love, M

2007-07-11T08:12:00.000-07:00

Dearest M,

I do not know what to get you for your birthday, but if I had many more dollars than I have now, here is what I would buy you for your GOLDEN BIRTHDAY:

- BMW convertible with car insurance, gas and oil changes included
- the entire Anthropologie skirt collection
- beautiful, leather bound copies of every Jane Austen book
- two-week vacation to Boston, Cape Cod and Martha's Vineyard with . . . (you got it) . . . me
- backstage passes to Coldplay, Sarah McLachlan and Imogen Heap
- several pairs of flashy pumps
- boxes upon boxes of fresh fruit
and
- him

But, knowing my income, you will probably get one of these things:

- a MicroMachine
- a skirt
- a book
- a picture of Boston
- a CD
- a shoe(s)
- a peach
and
- lots of love

Wish me luck!

Love, E

2007-07-06T10:28:00.000-07:00

Dearest E,

How lovely to see a little post 4th of july post! I am so glad to hear that your4th turned out well because I would have scolded you if you went without seeing fireworks!...scolded? That sounds mean! Anyway you know what I mean ;o)
Go here if you would like to see the result of my 4th, it was wonderful! Such a fun busy eventful day. I love p-town for holidays like this, they are so family oriented. Anyway I'm in a little bit of a hurry as of right now because well it's 11:30 and I have yet to shower or even get out of my p.j.'s...didn't you mention something about sleeping in!? My mom's sister and her family came for the 4th from Chicago and so we had a little girls sleepover in the living room last night. A sleepover consisting of shopping, dinner at Zupa's, girl talk, painting toe nails, board games from our childhood, a chick-flick, giggling and more giggling (remember our colonial bedroom and how I would randomly get into laughing fits? Well it happened last night and I thought of how you would just say "oh no here she goes!") It was great! So I think I will head to the gym now and work off the sleepy holiday week laziness.
BTW, how's work?
Oh, and look at your g to the mail for a little treat!

Loves, M

2007-07-05T08:44:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

Top of the mornin' to ya! I can only assume that you just woke up not too long ago since you just commented on my blog. I can think of 3 reasons why I envy your life right now:
1) You got to watch a parade in P-town with family that included hot air balloons, Cindy Clark, candy and fun in weather that resembles how summer SHOULD be.
2) You get to sleep in some mornings. If you want.
3) You will still get that "Does he like me?" feeling.

David and I talked about that last one yesterday. I said, "Aren't you going to miss that 'I wonder if they like me' feeling?" and he said, "Yeah. We are never going to have that again." I said, "I'm never going to have a first kiss again either." and he said, "Yeah, but you'll have a last kiss." Hee hee. I think that's from Friends.

Anyway, how was your 4th? I believe the high temperature in Arizona yesterday was -- ta da -- 122 degrees. I. WANT. TO. DIE. Swimming was pretty fun though and I think I'm getting a righteous tan. Boo yes. After that, we picked up some Chinese food (ironic) and drove to a park in Gilbert to watch the fireworks. We found a perfect spot about 15 minutes before the fireworks started. All the sudden, this awful family parked their car right in front of us (and just FYI, it was on the grass). They pulled out their 50 kids and proceeded to light sparklers and take pictures while I muttered under my breath. I was SO annoyed. We couldn't see the the fireworks at all because their blasted car was directly in front of our view. I grumbled that we should just watch the fireworks in our car. We drove closer to where the fireworks were being lit and found a much better spot with much less people. It still wasn't that great though and we are paying for staying up so late. Pooey. Anyway, what did you end up doing yesterday?

Love, E

2007-07-03T07:46:00.000-07:00

Happy Happy Happy Happy

4th of July!

2007-06-28T09:37:00.000-07:00

6 words:

1- Calexico

2&3- French Kicks

4- Free

5&6- August 23rd

I'll think you're sold!

2007-06-27T06:47:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

Well, my dear. It happened again . . . I called you on the telephone. I'm so ashamed. I just HAD to talk to you about some things (like your date and other things) but once again, I was shot down by a "no-answer". Let me explain why I called, I want to know details about some things because I know that if I ask you questions via the internet you will just respond with, "I'll call you later". You've already made this promise once without a follow-through. So call your friend, E, M!

Love, E

2007-06-25T13:18:00.000-07:00

E,

Gosh if organized lists of chat don't go straight to my heart, I don't know what does. You drew me in with that little listed post and I just can't resist but to respond right now!

First, Your speak of taunting you about phone calls was only a guilt trip aimed to myself because I never call you before you've called me first! But I will admit that this is all ironic because as I was staring at the wall this morning wondering for the first time since my lady of leisure days began "what in the world am I going to do today?" I thought hmmm...I know why E always calls me first, it's because I always want to call in the middle of the day when it is surely inconvenient for her and by the time evening rolls around, I've become occupied by people coming home etc. and so I simply don't think of calling. Yes that's it! But then I thought, hmm...I have some things to talk to her about and so I will call her tonight. Then, I noticed this lovely post and decided to post and so half of what I wanted to talk to you will be taken care of here with one slight matter that requires a phone call, although I have a busy night of fhe and yoga class and so it may be put off until tomorrow! Whew that was a long explanation!

On to the Second, Love this new layout. The font is snazzy, and that couch! Can I have that for my own house?

Third, Cafe Rio mmm mmm. The key is to help your dad fall in love with Cafe Rio so that he ends up requesting it just in time when that "gone a few weeks without cafe rio" craving starts to call. I am proud to say that I edged my dad along into this love and the rest is history!

Fourth, That boy featured on my blog is C. He is from my new ward and kindly asked me out for Saturday...although after he told me that we were hiking to Timp Caves at 3:00 p.m., I kindly became the outspoken person that I sometimes can be and asked that we go in the morning because yes it may be Utah but it still is 100 degrees right now. He kindly agreed and so we hiked up in the morning heat vs. the afternoon heat...although by the time we went down, it was afternoon heat, but those awesome caves sure cooled us off. It was an enjoyable morning/afternoon!

Fifth, I am sporting a new pair of eye wear. Putting the plastic black frames aside for a while and wearing a swanky red pair with side decor. High hopes for a posting about them soon!

Sixttth, Oh Shucks did I spell 6th wrong?...I just had to use the word :o)

Seventh, How could I forget the crash! That was a moment in time when my little heart sank and bulged all at the same time. Not to mention I almost ended up in that hospital bed with you when my body decided to faint! As far as your eyebrow goes, I'm just glad that their is a eye below it that can still see the eyebrow above it, and if you need to, draw it in babe draw it in!

Eighth, I'm looking at how many posts are saved in the archives and did we really post that much back then?! Lets start a new little memory track where we read an old post and then post about how funny it is! Yeah? Yeah!

Ninth, Did you get the email stating that J is prego? Wow those 2, I'm happy for them!

Tenth, and the final # of this post, I will give you a little preview of the topic of my soon to be phone conversation, I had an interesting Saturday night that expanded many random feelings as of late and I'd like to spill. The events of this Saturday night had to do with and reminded me of a long ago post (disappointment) from the beginnings of M&E. The beginning of our serious chats on the www.

Well this will end my long list of organized thoughts! I sure hope you enjoy a long awaited response from the M in the M&E...I really need to pull more weight in this partnership, I know it!

Loves, M

2007-06-25T09:28:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

Well, well, well. Your taunting about my calling you so much has left me feeling "down and out" about using the telephone. I think I'll resort to blogging much more because I know that you will like it as much as I. I check M & E every day in the hopes that you've written something. I'm making those hopes a reality. I'm bringing the fun back into dysfunctional.

For starters, who (pray tell) is that boy on your blog? Did you go on a date, you little vixen? It looked like fun. I want to go on a hike but it's too hot here right now for a hike. Maybe it would be cooler to hike in a cave. It looks like that's what you guys did.

Next, have you been to Cafe Rio lately because it is very delicious. You should also go to Cafe Trio and One World Cafe because we like places that have Cafe in the name. I will think of you tonight when I am eating a pork salad at Cafe Rio. So. Excited.

Next, do you remember when I got in that car accident across the street from Cafe Rio at Albertson's? That was no bueno. I trimmed my eyebrows yesterday and my scar looks a lot more prominent now. Shucks.

Next, you should try to use the word "Shucks" in a sentence today.

Next, I will end here and maybe you will write me back a little post telling me some things that you are thinking of. Love ya lots!!!

Love, E

Interviewing

2007-06-18T11:36:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

I’m throwing back to the days when you and I used to write each other long letters on this blog-ness. Do you remember that? I do and those were grand ol’ days. Anyway, I’m writing you this long letter because tomorrow is a very special day for you. You are having your very first post-Europe job interview. Hip Hip (there will be no Hoorays because this job is not in Arizona)! In any case, I wanted to wish you grand luck and a fine time at this interview of yours. Here are some interviewing tips:

1) Do a little homework! Research the company and the position if possible, as well, the people you will meet with at the interview. Review your work experiences. Be ready to support past career accomplishments with specific information targeted toward the companies needs. Have your facts ready!!!!!

2) Once you have finished studying, begin role-playing (rehearsing). Ask yourself questions that you think your interviewer might ask. Write down answers if it helps to make your presentation more concise. Try to keep your answers to the information your new employer will want to know.

3) Maintain eye contact with your interviewer. Show you want the job with your interest. In particular, avoid negative comments about past employers.

4) Listen and adapt. Be sensitive to the style of the interviewer. Pay attention to those details of dress, office furniture, and general décor which will afford helpful clues to assist you in tailoring your presentation.

5) Try to relate your answers to the interviewer and his or her company. Focus on achievements relevant to the position.

6) Encourage the interviewer to share information about his or her company. Demonstrate your interest.

Hope this helps – you know how good I am at offering unsolicited advice. Good luck and I love you lots! Call me to let me know how it went!

Love, E

2007-06-15T09:25:00.001-07:00

You're checking it aren't you!

Well here's a post for you...just so that your eyes can see something new :o)

Have a Happy Friday....Friday woop woop!

Love, M

2007-06-04T13:58:00.000-07:00

E,

Check these guys out

M83

and what was that you said,

you want to share Feist with me?

I love you!

M

2007-05-18T06:41:00.000-07:00

Ok, uh, I have some VERY bad news. While you are in Europe, something terrible happened. Brace yourself . . . Gilmore Girls is over. Forever.

I am very, very upset. I didn't even know it was over until I was watching the last episode. So sad. Here's how it ended. Rory told Logan that she couldn't marry him and they broke up. Rory got a job for an online magazine to cover the Presidential Campaign with Obama. Luke organized this huge party of Rory overnight, sewing together all the townpeople's tarps and raincoats to make a giant umbrella for the outdoor party because it was raining (a little unrealistic but cute, nonetheless). Anyway, Loralei, who has been having doubts about she and Luke ever getting over the past, was really appreciative that Luke did all this for her. They kissed in the street and it was SOOOOOOOOOO wonderful. It made me want to cry. Then Rory left. Like I said, I'm really upset it's over.

2007-05-04T12:13:00.000-07:00

I feel like I need to tell you two very important things while you are in Europe:

1) From last week's episode of Gilmore, I am 94% sure that Luke and Lorelai are getting back together. I am soooo excited.

2) Logan is going to ask Rory to marry him. Well, if Lorelai gives her blessing that is.

2007-05-01T21:56:00.001-07:00

boo.
i miss-a you.

(sniff)

enjoy europe.
p.s. it was a negatory.

2007-04-17T11:39:00.000-07:00

And let's be honest, I think you are obsessed with me!

2007-04-17T11:28:00.000-07:00

NO no no no no

I haven't forgotten about this blog, of course not!

I've just been on an M&E bloggers blank...I'm sure you know what I mean.

To make up for the MIA of the M of the M and E, here is a little sight of loveliness from me to you!

2007-04-16T10:05:00.000-07:00

This is a spoon --

because this is what I was doing last night when you called.

(hee hee)

What movie were you watching?

P.S. Have you forgotten about this blog?

2007-04-13T07:01:00.000-07:00

It would appear from my blog post last night

and all my posts on Facebook,

that I am obsessed with you.

Not to be alarmed, I'm not.

I just love ya and just really miss having a girl friend around.

It's kind of the PITS.

Anyway, hope you're having the time of my life!

2007-04-03T09:50:00.000-07:00

This is Jason Mraz. Are you surprised that he looks like this?

For some reason I assumed he would be older and a little bit uglier. Hmmmm.

2007-03-09T10:35:00.000-07:00

I don't know if I can out-do that one, But, You're On!

2007-03-05T18:34:00.000-07:00

You think you're random?
This is offically WAR!

HA!

2007-03-02T16:32:00.000-07:00

I thought it was pathetic that when I scrolled down on this page, their was still a post from Thanksgiving! WHO ARE WE!? So, today is titled Randomness.....

Awesome hair

2007-02-14T09:28:00.000-07:00

Not only am I irreplaceable

but I am also Farah Fawcett in the picture below.

2007-02-13T17:33:00.000-07:00

Let's face the REAL facts, there's just NO replacing YOU!

Zip

Zilch

Nada

No Way

Never

Don't Even

and yes i will come visit you!

2007-01-27T13:27:00.000-07:00

I miss Joe's.

Not 'cause of the food, that's for sure
because it always made me sick afterwards.
But their tots are way good.
I remember that night too.
It was very pleasant . . . and all because I was with you.

I sure miss you.
Thanks for the blog about me.
It made me very happy in a lovely way.

(This looks like a poem, huh?)
(A poem called "I miss Joe's")

2007-01-27T11:40:00.000-07:00

Lately,

I've been thinking a lot about that super enjoyable evening when we spent hours at D.I. looking at old books, funky clothes, and possible art finds. Then we stopped at Joe's for a bite to eat. I'm sure we listened to great music while driving in the car too. What a great night!

2007-01-15T11:10:00.000-07:00

I know E,

It's true, it happens

But I'm still here & you're still there

and someday...

I'll come to AZ again!

2007-01-10T15:06:00.000-07:00

M,

I feel like we are drifting apart. Where have "M & E" gone? I love, love, love being married but I really loved living with you too! Do you think you could maybe move in with us here?? We'll try not to make things uncomfortable for you at night.

Love, E

P.S. This is me being "sad" because I miss you.

2006-12-06T20:53:00.000-07:00

HI!

I wish I could make that font a little bigger to
accentuate my enthusiasm of that "HI!".
Oh well.
I sent your honeymoon present yesterday
and hopefully the post office won't return it
because I only put one stamp on there because I am a cheap skate.
That was a long sentence.
Hope you're awesome.
Call me sometime.
If you want.

(Colors are in honor of Christmas . . . just for you!)

2006-11-21T10:53:00.000-07:00

Happy Thanksgiving!

LAST CHANCE

2006-11-06T16:23:00.000-07:00

Finds:

It was quite the shopping spree, running around trying to look at everything I possibly could in an hour and a half, running and showing Stephen, getting his opinion, him coming to show me stuff, getting my opinion!...it was a fun time. I got all this loot for a mere $90! Thank goodness for plastic because I don't know where that $90 came from, but honestly, 2 winter coats alone would have cost more than $90....I got a steal! The shoes are my absolute favorite!

2006-10-25T15:05:00.000-07:00

Hey,

If life isn't any brighter today,
just know that something
SPOOKY OOKEY
is coming in the mail!

Love, M

2006-10-22T23:02:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

That is still, to this day, one of my favorite books ever.
I read that right before Dan and I broke up.
I think it opened my eyes a little bit . . . not to anything in particular.

Just life.

Love, E

P.S. Can't wait to see you in 11 days!

2006-10-20T14:52:00.000-07:00

As you know, I'm in the Children's Lit class and so I'm reading CONSTANTLY! I was walking up and down the juvenile literature isles of the library the other day and I remembered a book you had blogged about saying something like "don't judge a person until you've walked in their moccasins." So I looked up the book and took it home to read. I ended up reading and reading until I found myself teary eyed on the last few pages. I LOVED IT. The grandparents cooky and so in love with each other ways, the unexpected ending, Phoebe's mom, Sal's continuous insights...it was all so INSPIRING. This will definitely be a book in my collection!

2006-10-19T08:31:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

Egg.

Love, E

2006-10-13T12:49:00.000-07:00

telepathy
apparent communication from one mind to another without using sensory perceptions

spirit
a fundamental emotional and activating principle

I loved in the middle of our conversation yesterday when I said that their was a georgous sunset, their was just

silence...

2006-10-11T21:27:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

You must check this out.
You'll love me forever and like me for always for introducing you to it.
Alas, I cannot take all the credit.
It was originally Jordan's doing.

Love, E

2006-10-04T15:13:00.000-07:00

One of my favorite coffee shops visited (among the many) in Boise!

I kept picturing us sitting in a cozy corner reading books, writing in our journals, and sharing insights...all the while sipping a hazelnut steamer. If only they had something like this in Rexburg!

2006-09-24T19:55:00.000-07:00

M,

Check out 10 cent designer's Flickr pictures.

Love.

E

2006-09-21T14:01:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

a big THANKYOU for working on my blog...and continuing to do so!

Love, M

2006-09-16T17:49:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

Hopes for a new blog:

Layout = Simple lines, Great Color, Very Me
Add Links!...why don't they ever work for me?
Add Pics on the side...if possible?

Let me know when you have a free night to do this...I could even be at the library and we could gmail chat to get it done!

Love, M

2006-09-05T12:00:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

Did I ever tell you how much I love you? Silly me, I tell you all the time. Thanks for that post. It made me cry a little and miss you a lot. Just this weekend, I said to David, "I miss Mitch." That's right. I miss you like no one should have to. I miss David like no one should have to and it kills me to even think about it, but missing you is a lot different than missing David. I can honestly say that no one will replace my Mitchy.

Love you a million,
E

2006-08-31T16:49:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

You like the new FALL hair?
Love, M

Entry

2006-08-30T23:04:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

Did I ever read this to you?

4-17-05
Liz and I are sitting on a blanket in the middle of a tree covered park. The trees towering above us, the small chatter of surrounding people and small droplets of rain accompany us. Much has occured and been experienced in the last few months since my move and new beginning in Idaho. I continue to struggle in being here but I have found hope and faith in a God sent friendship with my roommate LIz. She will be moving to Boston in just 2 short days and once again I will find myself in the circle of finding a soul to connect with. LIz and I have become what seems to be beyond years in friendship. She has taught me a great lesson of non-judgementalness by her giving and humble manner. She has taught me more lessons than she will ever know and if she was the reason I felt I should come here, I feel that I have been richly blessed.
Liz is a very classy and stylish individual who practices her love of the arts through vocal and instrumental music, and her talent of cooking and design abilities. She portrays herself in strength and has a wide knowledge of the world around her through her traveling experiences. She has taught me to love old classic movies that always leave you feeling good, to make yourself and the things around you beautiful, and most of all to live for the gospel. We have become confidants and vessels of support. Of course we have had laughs all along the way. She has impacted my views and thoughts about myself. She has helped me realize that I am beautiful with or without makeup, that rosy cheeks are a natural beauty, and that freckles are just an asset to my face! How blessed I feel to have been given a renewed strength and insight through such a cherished friend. It is blessings like these that remind me to keep a grateful and hopeful persepective and help me to know that Heavenly Father works miracles in my life.

Love, M

L+A=love

2006-08-29T10:59:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

Did you hear about this? I guess she and Ric have decided to tie the knot.

Love, E

2006-08-22T17:14:00.000-07:00

Hey, where'd you find this picture of me?
You didn't secretly fly to The Big Rex and snap this photo did you?
I always knew you were a sneaky one!

2006-08-21T22:14:00.000-07:00

You're
my
hero.

2006-08-18T00:14:00.000-07:00

Dear E,This is how much I love ya, 5 Gilmore Girl Seasons worth...

And that's a lot!

Love, M

2006-08-13T10:00:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

I officially miss you. Here are the top ten things I miss about my best friend:

1. Being excited to come home so I could talk to you about funny things that happened that day (i.e. seeing Dale on campus, getting a phone call from a random person, slipping on the ice, etc.)
2. Hearing your opera voice in the bathroom.
3. Going on dates to D.I. and Joe's.
4. Laughing about something right before bed and then anticipating the burst of laughter that is sure to come 5 minutes later.
5. Inspired words that we read to each other.
6. Notes left on the door about borrowing clothes, funny quotes, pictures, "thank you"s and "holler"s.
7. Your words of advice.
8. Trying to keep our bedroom as cute as possible.
9. Driving to I.F. just for the long drive so we could listen to the latest iTunes mix and chat.
10. Your good example of kindness, motivation, goodness, effort and dedication.

Love ya, E

2006-08-05T11:38:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

Who knew that IF had such cute little shops?...antique shops, coffee shops, eateries, and even the Lemon Meringue, which can keep a girl happy until she can go to anthropologie. So if you ever come back this way, we have a date downtown IF all day Saturday!

Love, M

2006-07-27T18:23:00.000-07:00

P.S.

Read "tentative until confirmed with Jesus" on www.neelyfam.blogspot.com

Hope you get a good chuckle!

I'm addicted!

2006-07-27T18:12:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

I found a few new finds of my own thanks to P-Town's local Ross. I've seemed to become greedy with my money ever since I visited AZ and got to spend spend spend like I haven't done in years. It's amazing how it feels to know that you saved $ specifically to spend on clothes & pretty things! I now seem to think that I can do that all the time! Well, I couldn't pass up these beauties but I will be getting back to my poor old self here soon enough.

finally red shoes! not exactly what I have been searching for but loved them anyway.
a great flowy white summer skirt.
this cute vintage flowers button up shirt.
and
fell in love with this cardigan when I eyed it on a random rack in the pajama section (too bad if someone was trying to hide it...I found it!)

2006-07-23T14:31:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

I thank you. I thank you for being my truest, most reliable friend . . . other than my man, of course. But that's in a different way.

You have a way of just saying what I need to hear. It's strange how your words of wisdom always seem to be exactly what I need and yet, our experiences with life and dating have been quite different. I hope that I can sometimes do the same for you. Thank you for being in tune with the Spirit enough to know what your friend, Lizzy, needs. Love ya lots!

E

P.S. Thought you might like to look at these two Flicker albums. They are some pretty cool pictures. I just randomly found them -- so cheers!
http://www.flickr.com/photos/ryanhoover/
http://www.flickr.com/photos/javajive/

Hello from Idaho

2006-07-21T22:26:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

Together again. I was just as surprised as I'm sure you are right now, when I unzipped my bag as I returned from AZ to find Pumpkin' pop out of the pocket! He (or is it a she?) was so excited to see Frankenstein, I just couldn't help but laugh at his/her sneakiness. (Don't worry if you didn't even notice that Pumpkin' was gone, I won't tell him/her!) Now don't get to huffy and puffy because really Pumpkin' snuck out for the sake of seeing Franky again. I know that they've missed each other dearly and with my visit to AZ, Pumpkin' just didn't think it was fair that he/she didn't get to take a trip as well. They've had a grand old time....it would only be better if they were a top our fingers. Who knows, maybe they will make their way back to Arizona!?

Love, M

2006-07-21T16:18:00.000-07:00

"oh THERE you are peter . . . "

wish I could say the same for you, my dear m.
where'd you go, huh? like, I know you're busy but come on.
couldn't you at least post a picture of peter pan like me?
love, e

2006-07-18T09:26:00.000-07:00

So, I was wondering . . . do you think these are just some of the most awesome engagement proofs you have ever seen? They are of these two people from BYUI. I'm glad someone up there is pretty cool with engagement photos.

I love how bright they are.

I love how action-esque they are.

It's like you caught them in the moment.

2006-07-12T18:21:00.000-07:00

Oh M,

You seem to have forgotten . . . but how could you?

You may remember that our lovely roommate, Jilinda, possessed vials of scents to help her with her health problems. Well, as it turns out, she had a delicious smelling vial full of lavendar. Oh, it was lovely alright. I borrowed it one night and put it on a cloth in our room under the strict order to only use "one or two drops". Psh! Knowing me I, of course, overdosed on this lavendar delight and made us both so sick from the smell it's a wonder that you even like it these days. Have you forgotten the wretched headache we were both enduring the next morning? It was like a lavendar hang-over!

How, oh, how could you forget?

Love, E

Lavendar

2006-07-11T18:33:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

Let me tell you a little story...

There was a girl named M who recently returned from a trip with a wonderfully scented package of lavendar in her bag. She placed the pouch on her window sill figuring the light breeze from the window would fill her room with the pleasant aroma. There it sat for several days and she quite enjoyed the fresh smell. Well, among her worries was the fact that she just seemed so sleepy lately. She thought it was just the chaos of playing catch up and starting new and more demanding classes but she was getting adequate sleep in the night. Well as she was sitting at her computer doing homework she became overwhelmingly sleepy. As her eyes began to dose, the wind caught the lavendar and sifted the strong scent right under her nose. She turned with a smile as a lightbulb popped on in her head "lavendar is a wonderful relaxer and great if you're wanting to sleep....why didn't I think of this sooner!"
and so the story goes, she picked up the lavendar laughing as she walked out of her room and placed it in a basket in the bathroom where it would live more appropriately.

Love, M

p.s. I miss the scent horribly but its sleeping powers are amazing!

2006-07-06T21:06:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

I am ever so sad about the ring! It was so hideously ugly. I am . . . flabbergasted. I was so sure it was the one. I'm so disappointed.

Sheesh, this sounds like a big break-up doesn't it?

Well, anyway. It's back to the drawing board I guess. Wish you were here to help a sister out.

Love, E

2006-07-05T19:10:00.000-07:00

Arizona Withdrawels
Laughing with LIzzy
Queen size comfy bed
Corrine & Amos (please send them if you can!)
Driving to music in the AZ heat
Getting ready in the morning with a friend
Granola, fresh fruit, cake, homemade goodness
That gorgeous sunlit house
Okay okay, I even miss Chloe & Sasha.....!

2006-07-05T18:46:00.000-07:00

How cute are we?

2006-07-02T08:57:00.000-07:00

Indeed you were.

2006-06-26T17:34:00.000-07:00

Hey Guess What?

You can talk to me in person today!!!!!!

(and dangit I was really hoping for the amazing technicolor dream coat....okay okay really just Donny Osmond)

She'll be comin' round the point of the mountain when she comes

2006-06-25T18:03:00.000-07:00

TWO DAYS!

then . . .

5 GLORIOUS DAYS!

(By displaying those words in brightly and uniquely different colors,
it was not my intention to lead you to believe that those so-called
"glorious days" will include a showing of
"Joseph and the Amazing Technicolor Dreamcoat".
Those days will simply include insane amounts of glorious times
with your best friend in the world. Cheers.)

2006-06-23T17:43:00.000-07:00

Dear E to the Izzy,

I must say that I love your ring choices, but I am absolutely in love with your second choice! So if you don't get it can I? Well I should correct myself and say that I love your first choice for you and your second choice for me....!
So did ya know that I will be in AZ in exactly 4 days!!! (3 days by the time this posts)!!!
Yep that's right, I'm leavin' on a jet plane and spending 4 splendid days with my BFF. We're gonna live it up if you know what I mean.
I must confess, your Itch decided to take advantage of the free tanning services offered at her apt. complex and what was going to be a nice 5 minute pre-sun tan ended up being a broken timer 9 minute achy hurting red burn! Darn that timer! I've desperately bathed in baking soda, oatmeal, and vinegar. Thankfully, the only burned area's are those that never see the sun so noone really has to know! I sure hope I'm better by the time I have to hop on that plane, I have high hopes.
Well iggity izzy I must be off to do some pre-packing! That's right I'm starting mighty early... not only out of sheer excitement but you know how packing and I struggle...we're gonna do it right this time.

Lots 'o love and my soon to be blogging fingers right in front of you, M to the Itch

I don't mEAn on the phone . . .

2006-06-21T20:11:00.000-07:00

Dear Itch,

Hmmm, I don't know why I just called you that but it just came as a nickname for your nickname. Weird. Anyway, after your text today I thought that it is pretty sad that we never had a "Catty experience" with looking at rings and IMing them to the boyfriend at all hours of the night. Remember that? Me too.

Luckily, we have this awesome blog to assist in the (prolonged) engagement process. So, here are a few that I like. Lately, I have fallen head over heels for this one (the picture), but I also really like this one and this one. It's in that order too. I haven't told him about this picture (but I really love it) because I just found it tonight. I hope we'll look at rings when he comes next weekend.

Can you believe that I don't even care about the ring anymore? I just want to know that we are engaged and that I will be with him forever! Patience is a virtue, but seriously, I love him more and more every day. Isn't it funny that I was dating Dan (ewwww) and blowing off Dave (yummm) just last Fall? Not "funny" really. I guess "sick and wrong" is a better phrase. How are things with you? I am so, so, so, soooo ready for you to come visit me. I miss my little Itch. There I go again with that crazy nickname . . .

Love, Izzy

2006-06-18T21:02:00.000-07:00

All I have to say is,

9 days!!!!!

2006-06-17T21:29:00.000-07:00

NACHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!

Love, E

P.S. 10 days and totally counting.

2006-06-15T19:36:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

Guess what comes out tomorrow?

The One and Only!

Love, M

2006-06-11T09:30:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I am laughing really hard right now.
I don't know why, but I think this picture is
sooooo funny!
I hope Nick doesn't read this because
he might think we are making fun of him.
I love you Nick and I think you're awesome.

Love, E

2006-06-10T20:47:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

Well, I surely hope you find something you like at Last Chance.
It's always a bit of a gamble.
We'll probably have to go there a few times.
Oh, rats!
There are a few places that I would like to take you,
including a vintage boutique downtown (a Stephanie find).
The other day I went to L.C. and I got
three new shirts (one for my honey), a pair of pants,
a new wallet and some darling green and white sandals.
They are rockin'.
Anyway, can't wait to take you to my
little heavenly place.
I really love it there.
It's like coming home . . . or something less cheesy.

Love, E

2006-06-10T19:43:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

My Last Chance HopeToFinds

A large leather red bag
Cute swim shorts
Possibly a swimming suit with some color & complete M body flattery
Tops galore, preferably summer tops
A classy jacket for all occasions...E's black collar button up one is in mind
A long necklace (to enhance my chest of course...as if it wasn't already noticable!)
and,
A smashing pair of shoes

But of course I will go with no expectations because that is the only way I will find any of this...so if I just happen to come across any of the above I will be happy! (I seriously think about last chance everyday...I can't wait!)

Love, M

2006-06-09T19:13:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

You were one step ahead of me because I was just about to blog and say that it is raining. It has been raining on and off all day and is beginning to thunder now. You're picture is a perfect depiction of the current state. I must say though, I am quite enjoying it. Nothing like a good rain storm...and it is cooling this hot land off! So I rolled out of bed at 4 am this morning to catch the bus. I couldn't help doing what you know all too well, looking at my phone as it starts to beep..."what is that noise, why is my phone beeping?"..."ahh yes it's called my alarm and it's telling me to get up!"..."no it doesn't care that you were on the phone laughing away with R until odd hours of the night, you still gotta get up!" So I got up and rolled my luggage behind me as I walked to the bus stop...looking behind me at random moments...something a little eery at that time of the morning in the dark walking alone. But I made it. I slept almost the entire trip, using my backpack full of laundry as a pillow. It treated me well. I am the mom of 2 little children this weekend...quite the job I've found out! But my favorite part was fixing them dinner, giving them baths and then cuddling on the couch to read a story before bed. Thier soft little bodies smelling of fresh soap up against my skin. After I put them to bed, I went into the kitchen to grab my chapstick. As I was putting some on I realized that I hadn't put any on all day...and that's a miracle for me as I put it on constantly. I then realized the truth to the fact that when you have children, you really do put yourself last. It's a bless-ed feeling though...something that can only be felt in those rare and unique moments with children. I'm sure you have felt this and would agree.
To continue with this random writing, I really liked the most recent poem that you posted. Very intricite from the title down to the choice of words. I read it several times. Very nice.
Well E, I am just estatic that we will unite once again in a very short while. May was way too long of a wait but I have high hopes for the speediness of these next few weeks. It really will be a dream to be there....I just think of the plans we have and know that I will be lost in my favorite land which is INSPIRATION!
Love, M

2006-06-09T17:12:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

I hear it's raining there. Is that true?

I can tell you right now that it is NOT raining here.

Love, E

Feels Like China (by E in 2002)

2006-06-05T20:23:00.000-07:00

May the words you speak

Last a while

May the smile that presents itself

Linger

Until I see you again

I may memorize another’s face

But only for lack of yours

Until you come back

I may forget memories

But only to ease the pain

Please don’t forget me

May the kiss you send

Last a while

May the touch you feel

Linger

Until I see you again

I may memorize a different song

But not for long

Until you come back

I may forget the words

To hold onto me

But only to ease the pain

Good 'ol Relief Society

2006-06-04T21:30:00.000-07:00

Who in his right mind would prefer the corruptions of the flesh, the sensual pleasures, and the false excitement of sin, rather than the opportunity of becoming like God; rather than having inspired intelligence, or of some day wielding some of the powers that God uses as he walks in his majesty? Isn't it advisable that we direct to our own selves the question raised by the Savior: "...what shall a (wo)man give in exchange for (her) soul?" Whether we realize it or not, we answer that question every day of our lives by what we think and say and do. Our actions demonstrate whether we are working toward becoming like God or the world. Would you exchange it for a thrill? Would you exchange it for advantage in business? Would you exchange it for social life, or for emancipation from home and family in a woman's liberation movement? Would you exchange it for any amount of money? What is your rate of exchange? Whether we realize it or not, we are making this very kind of bargain if we prefer worldly things over our religion. The only way to save our souls is to put God first in our lives. If we reverse the process and relegate him to second, third, or fourth place, we make an exchange that we will rue throughout the eternities. It is possible to lose our salvation by default. Realizing this, can we afford to be other than active in the the Church? Can we afford to neglect our families? Can we afford to mix worldliness and Godliness, knowing very well that they will not tblend and knowing, too, that Jesus said we cannot serve both God and mammon? -Steven B. Oveson

2006-06-01T20:26:00.000-07:00

Dear E,

Have a happy weekend okay.
...and please excuse the cheesy picture.

Love, M

2006-05-31T18:21:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

It has been too long, MUCH too long, since I blogged you back. I am stinking it up at blogging. However, I did just talk to you for quite some time today so hopefully that makes up for my severe lack of bloggin-ness.

Steph and I had a really long talk yesterday about many things, but mostly about women. After the whole "DaVinci Code" thing, everyone's been talking about the sacredness of women a lot. So, it's only natural that we should talk about it. Stephanie has this theory that women with weight problems did not have a good relationship with their father growing up or they don't have a good relationship with their husband now. I agree with that to a certain extent. I wouldn't necessarily say that I have a "weight problem" but I could definitely lose 10 pounds. That's not important, but the point is that most of the time I don't just love my body and I do believe that part of that reason is because my dad rarely told me that I was pretty . . . actually, he don't really even think he noticed what I looked like growing up. Now that I'm grown, he tells me occasionally that I look nice or something. I love hearing that from him. Stephanie's point is that women need to love their bodies, no matter what they look like. In a nutshell, she said, "I think that women are born beautiful. We have beautiful curves and pretty body parts. We are naturally pretty. Now, that doesn't mean that we don't have to take care of our bodies just because we are born with the assets. We still have to make ourselves attractive to our mates, but it's so easy to make a woman feel good about herself by telling her that she's pretty." I'm reminded of Courtney's blog about Sweet Cheeks and also Elder Holland's talk in October 2005. I don't need to remind you about either of those (I don't think) but if any outside reader wants to read these, those are the links. Then, last night I was watching two men on a talk show talk about how they could make their wives happy. One said, "Well, they like jewelry." It was so stupid! All we need is to be noticed and appreciated. We need to be told that we are beautiful and that we are loved! How hard is that? It's a heck of a lot cheaper than diamonds and gold. Then I read this poem and I thought of how far women have come in history. For years, we were told that our worth is less than men and now the world is finally starting to believe otherwise.

You may write me down in history
With your bitter, twisted lies,
You may trod me in the very dirt
But still, like dust, I'll rise.

Does my sassiness upset you?
Why are you beset with gloom?
'Cause I walk like I've got oil wells
Pumping in my living room.

Just like moons and like suns,
With the certainty of tides,
Just like hopes springing high,
Still I'll rise.

Did you want to see me broken?
Bowed head and lowered eyes?
Shoulders falling down like teardrops,
Weakened by my soulful cries?

Does my haughtiness offend you?
Don't you take it awful hard
'Cause I laugh like I've got gold mines
Diggin' in my own backyard.

You may shoot me with your words,
You may cut me with your eyes,
You may kill me with your hatefulness,
But still, like air, I'll rise.

Does my sexiness upset you?
Does it come as a surprise
That I dance like I've got diamonds
At the meeting of my thighs?

Out of the huts of history's shame
I rise
Up from a past that's rooted in pain
I rise
I'm a black ocean, leaping and wide,
Welling and swelling I bear in the tide.

Leaving behind nights of terror and fear
I rise
Into a daybreak that's wondrously clear
I rise
Bringing the gifts that my ancestors gave,
I am the dream and the hope of the slave.
I rise
I rise
I rise.

2006-05-22T21:16:00.000-07:00

Dear Pumpkin',

Remember when we were once together.....we sat so nicely upon the fingers of M & E....they made us dance and we made them laugh. I must say you photograph quite well! This picture with all its fond memories has kept me company a many nights. I sure don't get out as often as I used to....good times good times.

With Love & Admiration,

Yours truly Frankenstein

2006-05-21T08:21:00.000-07:00

Dear M,

That REALLY is Nick! He posted that picture of himself on Facebook.
Who's this new guy? He looks really old!

Love, E